Indeed, now is a time for cooperation and support.
One of the things that told me I had a really great friend here in this once-foreign country (I knew basically no-one here when I moved, it was rather tabula rasa) was when I messaged him something like "Oh, shit, I proper fucked up", and his instantanious reponse wasn't "what did you do?", or laddish jokes about whether my partner had found out about something, but simply "how can I help?". My wellbeing got a huge boost, no matter what troubles had beset me.
-- Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people; the smallest discuss themselves
(Score: 3, Insightful) by FatPhil on Thursday December 31 2020, @12:55AM (7 children)
One of the things that told me I had a really great friend here in this once-foreign country (I knew basically no-one here when I moved, it was rather tabula rasa) was when I messaged him something like "Oh, shit, I proper fucked up", and his instantanious reponse wasn't "what did you do?", or laddish jokes about whether my partner had found out about something, but simply "how can I help?". My wellbeing got a huge boost, no matter what troubles had beset me.
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people; the smallest discuss themselves
(Score: 2) by barbara hudson on Thursday December 31 2020, @03:51AM (6 children)
Hard times can be good times, as they provide people a chance to do good. At least that's what I keep saying.
Then again, I'm probably full of shit thinking that. Maybe. Who knows? The world is f'ed up, news at 11.
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(Score: 3, Insightful) by mrpg on Thursday December 31 2020, @05:25AM (5 children)
The good thing is that you find out who are your real friends and who are just acquaintances.
(Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Thursday December 31 2020, @08:48AM (1 child)
<sarcasm>Wait a minute. Y'all had real friends?</sarcasm>
(Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Thursday December 31 2020, @04:39PM
"A friend is someone you need."
- Neil Diamond in Heartlight
Turn on your heartlight. And I'll call the next time I need anything from you.
(Score: 2) by DECbot on Friday January 01 2021, @06:04AM (1 child)
Q: What do you call a friend that you can't get rid of no matter what you do?
A: Family.
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(Score: 2) by Freeman on Wednesday January 13 2021, @06:57PM
The same is true, if they weren't family to begin with.
Joshua 1:9 "Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee"
(Score: 2) by JoeMerchant on Wednesday January 27 2021, @11:46AM
This is one of the good things I see coming from such a bizarrely conceived failed coup attempt in the U.S.
I respect their right to feel as they do and I encourage them to continue screaming at the top of their lungs "I BELIEVE THE ELECTION WAS STOLEN."
It's good to know where people stand.
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