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I'm writing this today, but it really takes place last Monday evening. (Today being Wednesday.)
In a nearby town about 45 min away is where some of my wife's family lives. Some of them run a small coffee shop that is closing (now closed) because of landlord of the large commercial building doesn't want a coffee shop there. Probably have other use ideas for the floor space more profitable than the lease money they earn now. Nobody knows for sure.
For the last three Sunday's some of us have gone there because it would soon be gone. On the first two Sunday's my wife and I went. Wore masks. Social distance. Etc.
On the first Sunday. One of the relatives, who is my friend, introduced me to his older brother. (we're all old men, fyi) After talking a bit, we fist-bumped instead of shaking hands as we parted.
On the 2nd Sunday. Nothing eventful. Talked with a few people including my friend whose brother I met the week prior. Didn't see the brother I met the week prior.
On the 3rd Sunday we didn't go because covid cases were on the increase in the local area. Sad because that was the final day the shop would be open. But hey we're now used to spending holidays alone in our house. Very sad. But no covid.
Next day, which brings me to last Monday evening. I get word through my wife that the person (the brother of a family member friend) I had met two weeks and a day ago has died from covid-19.
My first reaction was: WOW That was fast! I just met the guy. He seemed careful enough. (of course, I don't know vax status and don't ask unless people are coming into my home)
Second reaction between my wife and I were that if we had been exposed we would probably have symptoms by now. Of course, no symptoms as of the day I'm writing this. We rarely go out of our house. We even have groceries delivered to our door. Do Target pick up orders that get loaded into the vehicle trunk, etc. Amazon deliveries. Etc. (I do go to a deserted office every day because quiet and well lit.)
Some thoughts.
In the past I had posted that 1 in 500 Americans have died of covid-19. I know it is a joke to some people here.
Recently I googled and recalculated it to be 1 in 412 and posted that here.
As the numbers of dead go up and up, we will arrive at 1 in 400. Eventually 1 in 350. Etc.
The numbers don't lie. They are not fake news. They are statistics. And they represent real people who died of covid-19. The reasons don't matter so much.
Eventually everyone will know of someone within some small number of proximate connections who will (or has already) died from covid-19.
Once again, just to keep beating a dead horse: it is not vaccinated people who are filling up hospitals and taking up all the ICU beds. Wearing a mask is to protect other people more than yourself. Social distancing protects you both.
(Score: 3, Funny) by Azuma Hazuki on Thursday December 23 2021, @06:06AM (3 children)
Men are a little less than half the population, if only because people over 70 skew heavily female. My guess is that's because men don't care for themselves properly since apparently it's unmanly to see a doctor? Or it could be one too many "hold my beer" moments. Or, who knows, maybe men are just plain unstable and the price they pay for higher muscle mass is reduced immunity and longevity.
I don't think getting rid of the Y chromosome is a solution, since if the human race wants to propagate itself, we still need males. Lesbian love is not an option for more than maybe one in 50-100 of us, either. But the problem here is cultural, not something innate to males, I think. So the solution is also cultural, isn't it?
I am "that girl" your mother warned you about...
(Score: 3, Interesting) by DannyB on Thursday December 23 2021, @02:52PM
There is nothing unmanly about seeing a doctor. I have a primary care doctor, and she gives me the narcotic pain meds, boner drugs, and other common "old man" maintenance drugs. Then I have an arthritis specialist and he gives me drugs specific to my arthritis condition. I make sure both doctors get all lab results and complete list of drugs I'm on. That has worked out pretty well for many years now.
If a minstrel has musical instruments attached to his bicycle, can it be called a minstrel cycle?
(Score: 2) by krishnoid on Friday December 24 2021, @03:28AM
The human race needs *a* [fxnetworks.com] male. And a whole bunch of jars [youtu.be], apparently.
(Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Sunday December 26 2021, @09:28AM
Its not unmanly to see a doctor in the world of toxic masculinity. You cannot show weakness of any kind. You also cannot ask for help with something you should be able to take care of yourself. Going to the doctor is to admit defeat on both of those. That is why men, especially older men, will often concoct stories to explain the "real reason" or will provide some other exit ramp to safe face when they do finally go. Often people will blame ego, but it is deeper than that because men, as social animals, have internalized those mores and it can be hard to break out of that. The real problem is that because the negative traits are so ingrained in the sociocultural fabric that attempts to attack those traits are interpreted as an on the entire fabric itself.