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posted by janrinok on Friday January 16 2015, @05:38PM   Printer-friendly
from the who-knows-the-kids-best? dept.

The WaPo reports that Danielle and Alexander Meitiv in Montgomery County Maryland say they are being investigated for neglect after letting their 10-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter make a one-mile walk home from a Silver Spring park on Georgia Avenue on a Saturday afternoon. “We wouldn’t have let them do it if we didn’t think they were ready for it,” says Danielle. The Meitivs say they believe in “free-range” parenting, a movement that has been a counterpoint to the hyper-vigilance of “helicopter” parenting, with the idea that children learn self-reliance by being allowed to progressively test limits, make choices and venture out in the world. “The world is actually even safer than when I was a child, and I just want to give them the same freedom and independence that I had — basically an old-fashioned childhood,” says Danielle. “I think it’s absolutely critical for their development — to learn responsibility, to experience the world, to gain confidence and competency.”

On December. 20, Alexander agreed to let the children walk from Woodside Park to their home, a mile south, in an area the family says the children know well. Police picked up the children near the Discovery building, the family said, after someone reported seeing them. Alexander said he had a tense time with police when officers returned his children, asked for his identification and told him about the dangers of the world. The more lasting issue has been with Montgomery County Child Protective Services which showed up a couple of hours later. Although Child Protective Services could not address this specific case they did point to Maryland law, which defines child neglect as failure to provide proper care and supervision of a child. “I think what CPS considered neglect, we felt was an essential part of growing up and maturing,” says Alexander. “We feel we’re being bullied into a point of view about child-rearing that we strongly disagree with.”

 
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  • (Score: 2) by maxwell demon on Friday January 16 2015, @07:38PM

    by maxwell demon (1608) on Friday January 16 2015, @07:38PM (#135490) Journal

    and gay marriage.

    What has gay marriage to do with it?

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  • (Score: 3, Funny) by Jeremiah Cornelius on Friday January 16 2015, @07:40PM

    by Jeremiah Cornelius (2785) on Friday January 16 2015, @07:40PM (#135492) Journal

    Ass babies. They will have all kind of gay, ass babies. Those kind will ruin the few nice things we have left.

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  • (Score: 0, Troll) by Runaway1956 on Friday January 16 2015, @07:41PM

    by Runaway1956 (2926) Subscriber Badge on Friday January 16 2015, @07:41PM (#135493) Journal

    As I stated above - it is a symptom of a decaying society. THAT is what gay marriage has to do with it.

    • (Score: 2) by tathra on Friday January 16 2015, @07:57PM

      by tathra (3367) on Friday January 16 2015, @07:57PM (#135500)

      is it? where's the research linking homosexual partnering and societal collapse? if anything, it provides even more stability to society since "gay married" couples are married because they actually want to be, not because they had an unplanned pregnancy.

      • (Score: 0, Troll) by Runaway1956 on Friday January 16 2015, @08:23PM

        by Runaway1956 (2926) Subscriber Badge on Friday January 16 2015, @08:23PM (#135507) Journal

        Read history. Show me one civilization which endorsed homosexuality, then continued to grow stronger. There ain't none.

        • (Score: 2) by tathra on Friday January 16 2015, @08:33PM

          by tathra (3367) on Friday January 16 2015, @08:33PM (#135511)

          show me a civilization that breathed oxygen that didn't decay. show me a civilization that drank water that didn't decay. there ain't none. therefore, using your logic, both water and oxygen are bad for society.

        • (Score: 1, Insightful) by Anonymous Coward on Friday January 16 2015, @08:33PM

          by Anonymous Coward on Friday January 16 2015, @08:33PM (#135512)

          Show me one civilization which endorsed homosexuality, then continued to grow weaker. There ain't none.

          • (Score: 2) by Jeremiah Cornelius on Friday January 16 2015, @09:04PM

            by Jeremiah Cornelius (2785) on Friday January 16 2015, @09:04PM (#135521) Journal

            C'mon. Sodom and Gomorrah. It's in the history book.

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            • (Score: 2) by dry on Saturday January 17 2015, @05:20AM

              by dry (223) on Saturday January 17 2015, @05:20AM (#135595) Journal

              And a righteous person will send his teenage daughters out to get gang-banged, proving that they deserve to be spared Gods wrath.

        • (Score: 2) by ikanreed on Friday January 16 2015, @09:03PM

          by ikanreed (3164) Subscriber Badge on Friday January 16 2015, @09:03PM (#135520) Journal

          Alexander the fucking great.

          Sparta.

          The early roman empire.

          Mongolian China.

          • (Score: 2) by Jeremiah Cornelius on Friday January 16 2015, @09:07PM

            by Jeremiah Cornelius (2785) on Friday January 16 2015, @09:07PM (#135523) Journal

            Mongols were down with the mano-a-mano butt-trouble? Whoa! I thought this was just a Western value, on which Europe built its civilization!

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          • (Score: 2) by naubol on Saturday January 17 2015, @01:31AM

            by naubol (1918) on Saturday January 17 2015, @01:31AM (#135571)

            I'm pretty pro gay... but I've never read evidence that the Roman republic was homo friendly.

            OTOH there's an interesting argument that the most homophobic societies on the planet are places where US homophobes absolutely don't want to live.

            • (Score: 1) by tftp on Saturday January 17 2015, @02:06AM

              by tftp (806) on Saturday January 17 2015, @02:06AM (#135577) Homepage

              OTOH there's an interesting argument that the most homophobic societies on the planet are places where US homophobes absolutely don't want to live.

              It's hardly unusual that US citizens (of any persuasion) prefer to live in the USA. Other countries may have advantages to some, and disadvantages - like a different language, requirement of a work visa, lack of jobs, unfamiliar culture, etc. It's not like you can hop onto an airplane to Czech Republic and be all set in a day.

              • (Score: 2) by naubol on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:53PM

                by naubol (1918) on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:53PM (#135670)

                Everything you said is beyond disagreement. I must have failed to proper communicate my point, which is something like: if a US homophobe had to move to another country or voluntarily moved to another country the probability is that they would probably choose a more gay friendly country on average.

            • (Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:47AM

              by Anonymous Coward on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:47AM (#135590)

              I'm pretty pro gay... but I've never read evidence that the Roman republic was homo friendly.

              read up on in it then [wikipedia.org]

            • (Score: 2) by Phoenix666 on Saturday January 17 2015, @11:11AM

              by Phoenix666 (552) on Saturday January 17 2015, @11:11AM (#135639) Journal

              There was a scandal surrounding Emperor Nero [wikipedia.org], which as I understand it, was not because he had a homosexual relationship but that he played the part of the wife. Apparently it was OK to have sex with your male slaves as long as you were on top.

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              • (Score: 2) by naubol on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:51PM

                by naubol (1918) on Saturday January 17 2015, @03:51PM (#135669)

                Nero is deep into the empire, well after the Roman republic.

                Also, sample of one.

                • (Score: 2) by ikanreed on Tuesday January 20 2015, @02:02PM

                  by ikanreed (3164) Subscriber Badge on Tuesday January 20 2015, @02:02PM (#136341) Journal

                  Holy Christ are you in denial about this..

                  No. Shut up and read up on homosexuality in ancient rome. It's complex and nuanced, but it sure-as-hell existed centuries before their fall, and sure-as-hell was tacitly approved of.

      • (Score: 2) by SlimmPickens on Saturday January 17 2015, @04:54AM

        by SlimmPickens (1056) on Saturday January 17 2015, @04:54AM (#135594)

        it provides even more stability to society

        Perhaps, however I have to mention that some of my gay friends are as bad as it gets when it comes helicopter parenting. No -on can say they neglect them though.

  • (Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Friday January 16 2015, @07:45PM

    by Anonymous Coward on Friday January 16 2015, @07:45PM (#135496)

    And WTF is an "islamic no-go zone?"
    Is that one of those redneck towns that had a collective freakout and banned anyone from building a mosque? [onislam.net]