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posted by janrinok on Tuesday March 10 2015, @03:32AM   Printer-friendly
from the protection-or-interference? dept.

We previously reported on the parents in Maryland who were being investigated for neglect after letting their 10-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter make a one-mile walk home from a Silver Spring park on Georgia Avenue on a Saturday afternoon. Now the Washington Post that after a two-month investigation the Montgomery County Child Protective Services has found the parents responsible for “unsubstantiated” child neglect in a decision that has not fully resolved their clash with authorities over questions of parenting and children’s safety. "I think what CPS considered neglect, we felt was an essential part of growing up and maturing," said Alexander Meitiv. "We feel we're being bullied into a point of view about child-rearing that we strongly disagree with."

The finding of unsubstantiated child neglect means CPS will keep a file on the family for at least five years and leaves open the question of what would happen if the Meitiv children get reported again for walking without adult supervision. The parents say they will continue to allow their son, Rafi, 10, and daughter Dvora, 6, to play or walk together, and won’t be swayed by the CPS finding. “We don’t feel it was appropriate for an investigation to start, much less conclude that we are responsible for some form of child neglect,” says Danielle Meitiv, who said she and her husband plan to appeal and worry about being investigated again by CPS. “What will happen next time? We don’t know if we will get caught in this Kafkaesque loop again.” Asked how authorities would respond if the children were reported again for walking unsupervised, Paula Tolson, spokeswoman for the Maryland Department of Human Resources, said CPS would become involved if a complaint was made about the safety of the children. In such cases, “if we get a call from law enforcement or from a citizen, we are required to investigate. Our goal is the safety of children, always.”

 
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  • (Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Tuesday March 10 2015, @02:06PM

    by Anonymous Coward on Tuesday March 10 2015, @02:06PM (#155401)

    My wife was raised by helicopter parents.

    She can not even go out to eat without a 5 point itinerary and at a minimum of 3-4 day notice. The food preselected and restaurant preselected at least 2 days in advance. A pre planed departure time and return time.

    It drives me nuts. All I want to do is swing by the local burger place and grab something... Then afterwards maybe grab some ice cream depending on how I feel about it oh and maybe not get back until 11:30 (the horror). I dont require much.

    I had stopped pushing her out of her comfort zone because I got tired of the pouting sessions. You have reminded me I need to start again.

    Helicopter parents you are making life worse and less interesting.

  • (Score: 3, Interesting) by gnuman on Tuesday March 10 2015, @04:34PM

    by gnuman (5013) on Tuesday March 10 2015, @04:34PM (#155506)

    My wife was raised by helicopter parents.
    She can not even go out to eat without a 5 point itinerary and at a minimum of 3-4 day notice.

    One does not follow the other. There are plenty of examples of people that need an itinerary to go to local Walmart. But then they turn around and go on vacation to Caribbean with 1 day notice. Phobias are not always results of helicopter parenting, but I can't imagine that they help either.

    Anyway, first step in combating phobias is acknowledging their existence. A professional could really help here.