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posted by martyb on Sunday October 05 2014, @02:15PM   Printer-friendly
from the Be-Charming.  Like-a-Prince.  From-Venus. dept.

Tricia Romano reports at the Seattle Times that Susie Lee and Katrina Hess have developed Siren, a new online dating app designed to protect against men who inundate women with messages that are by turns gross, hilarious, objectifying and just plain sad. As online dating options have grown, Lee noticed that her friends' frustration did, too: With every good introduction often came a slew of lewd ones. "I just started looking (at online dating options) and very quickly realized how many things are out there and how immediately my 'creepy meter' went up," Lee says. Lee hopes to change the nature of the messages and put women in the driver’s seat.

The free iPhone app, currently launched to a select market in Seattle in August, allows women to peruse men’s pictures and their answers to the “Question of the Day” (“You found a magic lamp and get three wishes. What are they?”) and view their Video Challenges (“Show us a hidden gem in Seattle”). If a woman is suitably impressed by a man’s answers, she can make herself visible to him. Only then can he see what she looks like. "It’s a far more thoughtful — and cautious — approach than the one taken by the dating app of the moment, Tinder, which is effectively a “hot or not” game, with little information beyond a few photos, age and volunteered biographical tidbits," writes Romano. "And the implicit notion that it’s a “hookup” app can be uncomfortable for some women." Lee and Hess are betting that men are less shallow and want more repartee. And they know that women want a little more flirtation than crude references. After all, Siren’s motto is “Charm Someone’s Pants Off.” “Before the ‘pants off,’ it’s more about charming someone,” says Hess. “Be charming.”

 
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  • (Score: 2) by maxwell demon on Sunday October 05 2014, @05:08PM

    by maxwell demon (1608) Subscriber Badge on Sunday October 05 2014, @05:08PM (#102081) Journal

    Yeah, if you expose yourself, you should not be surprised that you are exposed.

    What's next? Posing in front of a web cam and then complaining you feel watched? Attending a nudist beach, and then complaining about feeling naked?

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  • (Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Sunday October 05 2014, @06:59PM

    by Anonymous Coward on Sunday October 05 2014, @06:59PM (#102131)

    > Yeah, if you expose yourself, you should not be surprised that you are exposed.

    Man. That's so sad. The entire point of the app is to give them the ability to better control that exposure.

    They are addressing the very issue you are denigrating them for not understanding.

    I wish there was someone providing a similar service for other kinds of exposure - I don't want everybody who sees my license plate in public to be able to make a permanent record of my travels. I don't want the fact that I made a purchase from a certain store to go into a database where I have no control over who can see that information. I don't want companies to amalgamate my visit to indidivual websites into a single identifiable record that I have no control over.

    Anything that gives people agency in how, when and to whom their personal information is exposed is a damn good thing.

    • (Score: 2) by physicsmajor on Sunday October 05 2014, @08:16PM

      by physicsmajor (1471) on Sunday October 05 2014, @08:16PM (#102152)

      Can't speak to the license issue, but regarding purchase anonymity the solution is cash.

      • (Score: 0) by Anonymous Coward on Sunday October 05 2014, @08:27PM

        by Anonymous Coward on Sunday October 05 2014, @08:27PM (#102155)

        Only works for brick and mortar.
        Furthermore cash has its own set of risks.
        And thanks, but no duh.